🐧 EVERYDAY LIFE⚡ 21 SEC
When you cannot decide, check if you chose because everyone did 🧭
Stuck Between
When we cannot decide in life, we are usually stuck between other people's values and our own.
Check It
When I cannot decide, I check: "Am I going because everyone goes?"
⚡ TRY IT
Sort the reasons
Whose reason is this? Put each card in a box.
☕Everyone is going to the new cafe.
🍋I want to try their lemon cake.
📱All my friends have this phone.
📖I want to read English books.
🏆It is No. 1 in the ranking.
🌊I want to see the sea in Malaysia.
🧭All sorted!
Read the card, then tap a box.
Hmm, read it one more time. 👀
💛 3 choices are really yours. For a 👥 one, ask once more: "Do I want it too?"
Your Choice
If it is "I go because I want to go," that choice is surely my own.
Trip Example
For example, a trip is fun when I choose it by "the view I want to see."
📚 I wrote this from my notes on books and blogs I have read.
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