🐧 EVERYDAY LIFE⚡ 20 SEC
Listen with about the same feeling level as the speaker 🎚️
Same Feeling
It seems it is good to listen with about the same feeling as the speaker.
Match The Level
If they are 30% angry, you are 30%, and if they are 80% happy, you are 80%.
Straight Face
If you listen with a straight face, the speaker worries, "Are you listening? Are you angry?"
⚡ TRY IT
Feeling tuner
Your friend tells you something. Set your reaction with − and +, then tap "Listen."
"I got a ticket to the baseball game!"
"The train was late, so I missed the start of the movie."
"My favorite cafe closed down."
Friend: happyangrysad
80%
You
0%
Right now you have a straight face. 😐
Now tap "👂 Listen."
😶 "…Are you listening? Are you angry?"
💞 "You get me!" Your friend feels heard.
😅 Too much! Now your friend worries about you.
🙂 A little more. Their feeling is bigger.
🏅 3 out of 3! You listened with your heart.
Words Or Feelings
A straight-faced person hears the "words," and a matching person feels the "feelings."
📚 I learned this from the Japanese blog "Panda no Ondo".
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