🐧 EVERYDAY LIFE⚡ 20 SEC
You cannot change because not changing protects a hidden goal 🛡️
Immunity Map
Research at the Harvard Graduate School of Education has an idea called the "immunity map."
Hidden Goal
When you want to change but cannot, it is because you protect a "hidden goal" by not changing.
For Example
For example, some people want to ask others for help, but they do everything alone.
⚡ TRY IT
Find the invisible shield
Why does "change" bounce back? Tap card 1.
🔍 Something is blocking the change…
🔍 Found it! The hidden goal was the invisible shield.
The Reason
Their hidden goal may be "I want to show that I am useful."
📚 I wrote this from my notes on books and blogs I have read.
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