🐧 EVERYDAY LIFE⚡ 15 SEC
Top givers are kind, but not to people who only take 🎁
Grant's Research
In Adam Grant's research, both the lowest group and the highest group were "givers."
The Difference
The difference is whether they are kind even to sneaky people.
Top Givers
Top givers are not kind to people who only take.
⚡ TRY IT
Help or skip?
8 visitors are coming. Read what they say, then choose.
🔋 Your energy
💛 Friends
"I'm moving this weekend. Can you help? I'll make lunch!"
"Lend me money again. I'll pay you back… someday~"
"Can you teach me this? I'll buy you a coffee!"
"Do my homework. I'm too busy playing."
"My umbrella broke. Can I go with you to the station? Thank you!"
"Pay for my lunch again? You don't mind, right~?"
"I'm lost… Which way is the park?"
"Clean up my mess. You like cleaning, right?"
Visitor 1/8
💛 Friend +1! They say thank you.
🔋 −25. They just take and leave.
💔 Oh… they really needed help.
✨ Energy saved for people who matter.
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Top giver! Kind to kind people, and you still have energy.
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Drained giver. You gave your energy to the takers too.
🧊
A little cold. The kind visitors needed you!
Save Energy
They use that energy for the people who matter to them.
📚 I learned this from the Japanese blog "Panda no Ondo".
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