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If a change feels awkward, it is probably the right change 👕

A layered cut paper diorama penguin wearing a slightly too big striped T-shirt and looking a little awkward
Not Comfy

Actions that change you usually do not feel good.

Wrong Size

It is like a shirt that does not fit, or writing with your other hand.

Old Practice

This is because your whole life so far was practice for being "the you of now."

⚡ TRY IT
The feeling reader 🔮
Pick a new habit. Then tell me how it feels.
🚶 A walk before breakfast 📵 No phone in bed 🥦 Vegetables first at dinner 📖 10 minutes of English a day
How does it feel?
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🛡️Careful! Big excitement may be just armor. "This is it!" can be a way to not really change.
👕✅ Probably the right change! Awkward means it is starting to work, like a new shirt that does not fit yet.
🍌Try just a small piece. Often it is only like an overripe banana: a small "yuck."
Probably Right

So if it does not feel right, it is probably right.

📚 I learned this from Oliver Burkeman's newsletter. Read the original (English)
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